Love and Lifestyle

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My love life hasn't exactly been traditional by any means. Trying to explain it in any specific sense is difficult. I am loyal, loving, fair, sensitive and honorable. I make rational, long term choices, with consideration being made to my lovers own wishes, as well. How a relationship works out, is based upon the needs of the specific relationship. Very rarely are two relationships going to have the same dynamics.

I am courting a wonderful woman, and I do hope we will eventually be sharing our lives together. Some aspects in this section may or may not relate to my current relationship. But I do believe that she is aware of these views and curious about the passion and intimate possibilities.

Currently my thoughts are that I am likely best described as a Hedonist (a person who is devoted to the pursuit of pleasure), whom is Demisexual (demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction only to people with whom they have an emotional bond - which in turn means I am not looking for hookups or casual fun).

This section deals mainly with posts about love, and relationships. Any posts involving discussions of a sexual nature, will be restricted to registered members only. Please be respectful of these posts, as they are from the heart often. We are always, constantly changing and evolving emotionally to our environment. Ideals, and expectations change over time. Please note, that older posts may not reflect what my current thoughts may be.

Lifestyle Themed Posts

This page displays a number of Lifestyle or sexual themed posts, which are for registered users only. Being a Hedonist, I do venture into the realm of the BDSM lifestyle. But this lifestyle is very misunderstood and perhaps rightfully so, as there are many who claim to be involved in it, who are there just to manipulate and use others for their selfish reasons. So, please understand that I am not blind to that, nor do I wish to glorify those people's actions or motives. But on the other hand, there is a true culture of people who practice this lifestyle in a proper manner. And those people are some of the most loving, respectful, open minded and caring people I know.

Popular or special pages:

  • Sarah McLachlan's Sweet Surrender - an exploration of this musical masterpiece and what it means.
  • Erotica - a collection of erotica writings and stories (both fiction and non-fiction).
  • Passion and Intimacy - This post explores the need for such things in our lives.
  • Non-Monogamy - A post about the various forms of non-monogamy. I wrote this because some non-monogamy situations seem to be highly misunderstood (even by those who claim to practice them). That being said, it is something I no longer wish to practice. But it is a good reference for any of those who do still practice it.
  • Jealousy in Polyamory
  • More Personal or Self Reflective Posts:

  • Barn Fire and Other Thoughts. - A rather long post, where I try to ground my thoughts on the events which happened in late 2014 with my friends Tailz, and Sable.
  • What I am Seeking in a Partner - An outline I wrote when trying to figure out what or who I was seeking in a new relationship.
  • Courting and Dabbling - Why things sometimes don't work out...
  • Murder of One - Lryics which help convey my feelings about trying to convince females in poor relationships to have the courage to look elsewhere.
  • Zoar Valley Weekend - A small post describing a fun weekend. Kept only for memory sake.
  • The (real) Rescue
  • My Early Adulthood Experiences
  • An Adventure Begins- A series of posts detailing the events in my life (i.e. Sable) between 2018 and 2020. A interesting story, but for registered members only as it does include intimate details and nudity.