What I am Seeking

I am a quirky technical guy, with a big heart, and I am very willing to please and pamper. I am often told I am funny, but I don't try to be. I am also confident and proud of my accomplishments and who I am. I am very affectionate, and am looking to devote that love and attention to someone special. I am extremely honest. I am Canadian born and raised, but am a full American Citizen.

I work full time, in a very secure career. I make a comfortable living. I have even invented items that you probably see on a daily basis. I own my own house in a lovely historic neighborhood. I doubt I'd want to move, but I could be convinced.

I am looking for someone who enjoys the outdoors as well as relaxing inside. I enjoy activities that involve both my partner and I. I like some routine, but I also like some chaos inspired by unplanned adventures. I also enjoy gaming together on PC, xBox or Board Games, over just sitting and watching TV. I am also open to exploring old hobbies of mine once again, like Urban Exploration, photography or off-roading. A few of my other hobbies are Model Railroading, and keeping a Salt Water Reef Aquarium.

I very much am into consent and respect. Violence and anger is not something I will put up with, or engage in. But I do look for that deeper, more advanced passionate, intimate and sexual interest, or at least curiosity in my ideal match. I am quite kinky, and looking for someone who is curious about exploring that type of stuff. But I am not looking to base a relationship on sex / kink.

I am not too picky on income or education of my match. Just have some ambition to make something of your life, and be responsible when needed. They would need to be local, or willing to travel, and eventually move here live with me.

I am politically centered or right leaning. I am not looking for someone who is a radical left, that is for sure. But, as long as you are open minded and able to agree to disagree or read and take into account opposing viewpoints, I am cool.

I am okay with someone who already has children, so long as custody isn't a complication or concern. I am also okay with someone who wants children, or doesn't want children. I could go either way on that, so long as I have someone who makes me happy to be by my side the rest of my life. Age isn't super important, so long as you are mature and we connect well.

Vices are a concern to me. I will not stand for any illegal drug use, and can't really be around Pot. I can deal with smoking to some extent, and vaping for sure. I can also deal with slight alcohol usage, but not someone who needs alcohol every day. I don't do drugs, smoke, or really drink on a regular basis.

I am looking for someone who takes care of themselves. Weight isn't too much of a factor. Personality is important, and the biggest thing for me, is the ability to have fluid, dynamic conversations, about anything. Be interested in what I have to say, and I will be interested to hear what you have to say too! Irregular communication, or difficult communication, for me is a turn-off - especially in the 'courting' stage.

I am looking for someone who wants me, as much as I want them.